Whenever it all seems insane, I turn back to Thich Nhat Hanh.
People deal too much with the negative, with what is wrong.Buddhism for me is all about realization. I tend to agree with the Zen Buddhists who say that enlightenment comes in a sudden flash when you're not even concentrating on it. You'll be sweeping the leaves on the front walk and all of a sudden it all makes sense.
Why not try and see positive things,
to just touch those things and make them bloom?
The trick isn't achieving enlightenment, the trick is surviving until you can have that sudden realization... and not getting too wrapped up in your own bullshit in the meantime.
We humans are funny little creatures. Everyone in the world needs someone (especially the people who act like they don't need anyone), but the real challenge is finding an equilibrium with someone you need who also needs you-- you have a perfect balance of give and take, or at least you can eventually keep that balance before one of you falls off of the relationship.
Please keep Crystal in your thoughts. It's never easy to lose a loved one, especially so suddenly.
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